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18 Dec

Last night, after dinner, my parents and Ativan Online Cod I sat watching TV, and at some point, the local TV station showed an Ativan Online Cod orphanage. I find the way we treat orphans highly linked to Ativan Online Cod our claims to any sense of humanity and humaneness, but like so many other things, I rarely think about the Ativan Online Cod reasons babies end up in orphanages. Of course we normally hear about AIDS orphans in east and Ativan Online Cod southern Africa; last night, I heard about the breed that Ativan Online Cod people generally know exist, but that they nevertheless almost never actually talk about, think about or Ativan Online Cod discuss.

Babies on the dunghill…
I asked my mother about how children end up in orphanages. She said that Ativan Online Cod it was largely because many of the kids were abandoned. I further asked about how common it Ativan Online Cod is for children to be abandoned. She told me that it Ativan Online Cod was really more common than people realise. She told me that Ativan Online Cod a kid was found a couple of days ago at a Ativan Online Cod dunghill close to a panel-beater’s shop. The baby was eventually taken to Ativan Online Cod the local federal hospital where my mother works.

…and at the motor park
I further wondered how it Ativan Online Cod was possible for a person to be pregnant and give birth without anyone knowing. My mother then Ativan Online Cod told me the story of a particular lady. The lady was staying in the Ativan Online Cod home of a couple, sleeping in the same room with the Ativan Online Cod couples children. The mother woke up during one night to hear the Ativan Online Cod cry of her child in the room the lady shared with the Ativan Online Cod children. She got to the room, found that the lady was not there, took care of the Ativan Online Cod crying child and decided to check where the lady was. She checked the Ativan Online Cod bathroom and found traces of blood on the ground. She traced the Ativan Online Cod blood from the bathroom out of the house to a motor park close to Ativan Online Cod the house. She found the lady holding a child, still unbathed, about to Ativan Online Cod leave it at the park. My mother told me the story to Ativan Online Cod illustrate that it was possible to be pregnant without it actually being exactly obvious.

What are the causes?
Why do people have kids that they can’t keep? According to Ativan Online Cod my mother, it often happens when the mothers have tried to Ativan Online Cod abort their pregnancies and have not been successful. Why are they not successful? I think it Ativan Online Cod is because they do not consult experts when they try to Ativan Online Cod abort their pregnancies. Why is that? Because abortion is Ativan Online Cod illegal in Nigeria. Well, that is not exactly true. Abortion is Ativan Online Cod not illegal in Nigeria, but one needs to get the signature of two medical doctors who Ativan Online Cod are willing to say that the pregnancy endangers the life of the Ativan Online Cod woman. But that is not a solution for most of the Ativan Online Cod women who abandon their children. That group is largely made up of women whose main reasons for Ativan Online Cod not wanting to raise a child are economic.

What to do right now?
I really find it Ativan Online Cod hard to think of any solution to stop women from abandoning their babies, but I can Ativan Online Cod think of a way to make sure the babies abandoned do not die. Sometime ago I watched a Ativan Online Cod news item about a hospital in Germany where is it possible to Ativan Online Cod leave unwanted babies in such a way as to make sure that Ativan Online Cod one is unobserved, but that someone is quickly alerted that a Ativan Online Cod baby has been left at the stand. The mother can leave unobserved; the Ativan Online Cod baby can stay alive.

If we cannot change the economy ‘right now’ what can we do? I think the Ativan Online Cod kind of system that the German hospital has would definitely be Ativan Online Cod a good place to start. I also think that pro-choice clinics should be Ativan Online Cod available in Nigeria. Of course, that needs legislation. I don’t know how that Ativan Online Cod can be swung right now but I strongly think they should be Ativan Online Cod available. And there should be a massive campaign in the media to Ativan Online Cod inform people in such desperate situations about where they can get help. At this Ativan Online Cod point, I wonder what on earth those well-funded NGOs that work on family health, women issues and Ativan Online Cod allied fields do. I think there certainly are issues other than Ativan Online Cod HIV.

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  • Anja

    We discussed this Ativan Online Cod topic in my family very recently. We started with the following questions: Why do some mothers (and fathers too) kill their children? Why don’t they bring the child(ren) to a Babyklappe or an orphanage? Later, we also talked about potential adoptive parents’ preference for Ativan Online Cod babies and toddlers. Can stricter control protect children from harm caused by their own parents?

    My suggestion was that the murder of one’s own child(ren) often happens in an Ativan Online Cod act of emotional instability, either directly after childbirth or later in a Ativan Online Cod crises (too much strain related to Ativan Online Cod childcare, separation from the partner, financial ruin etc.). This means the Ativan Online Cod parent would be too emotional to think clearly and therefore does not even think of such institutions where Ativan Online Cod you can abandon a child (and where it would at least stay alive). Since you’ve stayed in Germany this Ativan Online Cod year, you should be able to remember all the many times we’ve been Ativan Online Cod told about the discovery of another killed baby. So, this happens here as well, despite the Ativan Online Cod Babyklappe.

    For some parents, the Ativan Online Cod reason may be that they consider being brought up in an Ativan Online Cod orphanage worse than death. Orphanages did not have a good image in the Ativan Online Cod past (see Oliver Twist) and Ativan Online Cod have not recovered from that yet and partly they still need to Ativan Online Cod improve a lot (see present reports about orphanages for Ativan Online Cod handy capped children in East European countries).

    We also spoke about adaption and Ativan Online Cod how difficult it is for the potential parents since there are Ativan Online Cod more people wanting to adopt than there are children waiting for Ativan Online Cod adaption. A “solution” may be Ativan Online Cod to adopt a child from abroad but as you surely know this Ativan Online Cod also bears risks, such as children being taken away illegally. Another solution may be Ativan Online Cod to adopt an older child. However, older children are less likely to Ativan Online Cod find new parents. My cousin who worked in an orphanage for Ativan Online Cod a year commented on this “I would not advice to Ativan Online Cod adopt an older child, they are a lot of trouble”. Well, and then everybody wants cute, little babies.

    Germany is Ativan Online Cod now going the way of controlling parents more strictly, e.g. by making regular visits to Ativan Online Cod the paediatrist obligatory. However, that won’t effect cases in which the Ativan Online Cod mother was able to hide her pregnancy, gives birth to Ativan Online Cod the child in secret and then kills him/her. My current flat mate, a Ativan Online Cod medical student in her final year, told of a case in which even the Ativan Online Cod mother didn’t know she was pregnant until the Ativan Online Cod baby was born. So, I can well imagine a woman, especially a Ativan Online Cod more heavy woman, to be able to hide her pregnancy and Ativan Online Cod thereby bypass the controls.